A strange place to post something like this I know, but at the moment I don't know where I am... my wife just ended our marriage today... it looks like I could lose everything...and I'm feeling more alone than I have ever done.. I wish there was a punchline to this story but unfortunately there isn't one, neither is there a happy ending... sorry to bring a sad emotion to the forum but I just needed to put it somewhere..
My world just crumbled...
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Im very sorry to here that. Keep your chin up. It will get easier. Have you got anyone close to speak too?
I'm afraid not.. I gave up everything to be here so I guess it's just me now...
stick with us mate
we will get you through it!
you know hurricains are named after women because when they come they are wet and noisy and when they leave they take your house and car
I sympathise with you mate,the same happened to me a few years ago, it was very hard in the beginning, coming home from work to an empty house every day, But you will get used to it. But don't worry too much,I lived on my own for three years, but now I am with the most amazing woman and the bonus is she loves bikes. Keep your chin up and things WILL get better.
Keep talking to us,
we'll do our best to help, things can only improve from here, always good to see that avatar on here and read your posts! Get on here as often as you can.
Sorry to hear that , its prity gutting stuff . I was there 10 years ago mate . Married with 3 kids and she took the lot . House, car, kids....everything . I stayed with a work mate for 9 months until I was sorted .
You really need to find support from family or friends to help you through . Just remember you will get to the other side and usually find your twice as happy as you were before the split .
When I got left High and dry the first thing I did was buy a bike cos the ex wouldn't let me have one . I used that bike to keep me on the straight and narrow . It helps to have something to focus on away from the caos of seperation .
Keep ur chin up mate . and we can give you some moral support on the forum if you want to chat .
seems that in these situations the woman always comes off best even when there aren't kids involved. But like Kayaksteph says it does get easeier, just stay positive and before you know it life will be back on the up.
Ive not been there myself so i cant begin to imagine how shit your feeling.
you want a friendly ear you will find many on here. for what its worth, i hope it gets easier.
Been there, over 30 years ago
I know how it feels - you would not wish it on your worse enemy.
Came home, empty house, just found a letter left on kitchen table, no warning signs, a bolt out of the blue.
It was strange to find out later, that everyone else knew it was about to happen but not me.
Yes there was punch line - looking back it was the best thing to happen to me.
Things can get better - try to keep busy.
It's natures way of saying there is someone better, out their for you.
Been there also..Wife left for her boss and left me with a 3 year old..Buggers still here 20 years later..Everytime I see ex, it cheers me up knowing I'd have still been with her..She's aged badly and seems very unhappy..So as everyone else says..It seems hard now,, but things work out..
am so sorry to hear about that your marriage has ended. There a lot of good people on here that will always listen and be a good friend to you keep strong and we are here for you x " />
Father,...don't know your situation as regards children etc..but like people say,things will get better,but just remember being a singleton doesn't have to be a constant whirl of drink and stuffing your face.....and watch out for t**ts saying 'I thought you priests couldn't marry anyway'
Kindle not a fire that you cannot extinguish.
stay strong Father
Sad news this is Father Jack! But you know what they say and I firmly believe in it - WHAT DOESN'T KILL YOU MAKES YOU STRONGER!! Don't give in to sorrow or retribution. Just try to keep your head up and keep it civilised.
You are posting a very personal note on a forum full of strangers but it's obvious everyone here is offering their sincere support and empathy.
Look forward to better days to come!!!
im local to you if you need owt,chin up mate " />
**Father Jack **
Sorry to hear it mate ..... just remember you lived your life just fine before you met her ...and so you will again in future.
Things often happen for a reason ... you may be hurting bad right now .....but in time you will probably find someone better.
FatherJ sorry to hear your news
I understand that for now you cannot see beyond what is happening. But I know for sure you will see the other side, that dark void within you will slowly fill, and you will feel complete again....!
My thoughts are with you, don't feel alone we are here if you need to reach out to someone.
I've been where you are, and I won't tell you it doesn't suck big time.
You will come through it and, I have no doubt, come through it a stronger person, which in turn will ensure you have a better understanding of who you are and what you want.
One of the worst things is the feeling that you're alone. When I split with my wife, friendship, support and someone to listen to where probably the things I missed most, as our 'joint' friends either sided with her or didn't want to 'get involved'.
So, as others have said, there are plenty of people on here who will be happy to listen without agenda.
Everything happens for a reason May not seem that way now but time will tell" /> good luck.
to here this Jack, but is it deffinitely final, no chance of reconcilliation (if that's what you want)?
I know this won't mean alot at the minute but you will pick yourself up and while it may take some time you will get there mate. Life will seem shit at the minute but in the end things always sort themselves out - whether it gives you a new lease of life or whatever.
i dont know your circumstances ie kids etc, if you have any you will still see them, no one can take them away from you, if not then happy days, who the feck in their right mind is going to miss someone that does'nt love or wanna be with them, and no doubt making your life a misery cos i wouldnt have thought she just decided to wana go today, take a bit of time out, think what you want out of life and go get it, your heart WILL mend and theres a whole new chapter in your life now so enjoy